Friendship or relationship?
Dear friends, do you think it is better to keep as friendship or become into a relationship? hmm... i think tat friendship is better right? at least u can still maintain good relations with e person. on e other hand, i felt that if get into e relationship, things might get sour one day and u n e person may not be friends again... true?? Sigh.. i understand that I have been single for some time.. and that e phobia sometimes still exist.. however, i always motivate myself to open up and widen the social circle around me...yes i did... and i prayed alot to God about it... somehow it seems like God answers. and this time i am not really ready yet for a new relationship...His relationship with his gf turned sour cos of distant relationship... and from wad he said, he is planning to stay here in Singapore n not going back. he tried many ways to tell me that he likes me..i felt that too.. but i am bothered about his gf... wad will he do to her? is it gonna be unfair?? i told him not to hurt anyone's feelings.. including his gf. cos if he is really planning to stay here, he should try to settle things with his gf. perhaps a break up? cos they wont see each other anymore unless if he goes back or his gf comes here. also, not to hurt me cos i dun wanna b hurt again... is he serious about us??? is he treating me as a replacement?? well, we jus started this friendship.. and i dun wan to lose it... i think it is better to be friends first right?? get to know each other more n see how... i have e feeling that he is still unsure although he confessed to me and that everyone can see that he likes me... let the time tell... and i hope that he can settle his side's problem before coming to me... sigh...
